Friday, October 31, 2008
Vegan MoFo: One Last Hurrah
Posting everyday was a bit much for me. The change in the weather has been a drag. This time of year is always difficult emotionally, and I just haven't felt up to doing much of anything. In the passed few weeks, I've barely cooked at all, which is definitely out of the norm for me.
As my final post in VeganMoFo, I decided to tell the story of my first time with tofu.
Having been a vegetarian for 4 years now, I feel like I can consider tofu to be a dear friend. But our relationship was not always a good one, and it had a very rocky beginning. I would also like to declare the following statement for anyone who was unsure: It is perfectly easy and acceptable to be a vegetarian or vegan and not like or use tofu. It's interested how many people remark "I don't like tofu" whenever I mention that I am a vegetarian. For the longest time, neither did I. I would also like to note that tofu is not just for vegetarians. It's its own food, not always a subsititute for meat. Anyway, I digress.
When I first started thinking about where my food came from, and toying with the idea of vegetarian/veganism, I spent a lot of time researching on the internet how I could make animal-free versions of some of my favorite foods. Being that my pre-veg signature dish was lasagna, I didn't know how I'd ever make a delicious vegetarian lasagna, much less a vegan one. How would I ever replace ricotta?!
The internet informed me that vegans used tofu in place of a ricotta filling in a lot of recipes. Unfortunatly, I never read any of those recipes. At that point in my cooking career, I didn't own any cookbooks, and never really cooked from recipes. I just made things up as I went along, and the results were always delightful. Why, then, would I need someone else's recipe? (Sidenote: I still love experiementing on my own, but reading cookbooks has done so much to mature me in the kitchen) Still not sure what to do about all the meat I used to use in lasagna, I opted instead to make stuffed shells for my first time with tofu. And I made the 2 typical first timer mistakes. First off, I used silken tofu. It was the only kind I had ever seen. I didnt even know regular tofu existed. Secondly, I stuffed the shells with only crumbled up silken tofu. No seasonings. No nutritional yeast. No lemon juice. Just plain silken tofu.
Overcooked pasta shells stuffed with plain tofu, covered with the cheapest jarred spaghetti sauce. As you can imagine, they tasted terrible. I was so disappointed. I told my then vegan roomate that I had made vegan stuffed shells with tofu, that I didnt like them, and that they were in the fridge if she wanted them. She seemed excited when I told her, but several days later the large pan was still pretty much full. Pehaps she didnt want to hurt my feelings, but oh I wish she would've told me what I had done wrong!
I did try tofu again a few months after that, in a restaurant, and I really liked it. I am now well versesd in the different varieties of tofu and their appropriate uses. And according to Bill, I make a mean tofu scramble. Tofu has definitley been the most challenging ingredient in my kitchen, but I am definitely comfortable with it now, and am able to enjoy it in many different ways.
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Vegan MoFo: Product Review- Oat Dream
Last time I was at Whole Foods stocking up on soy milks, this product caught my eye, Oat Dream. Now, I have had Oat Milk before. I tried Pacific brand oat milk, and while i did enjoy the flavor, the texture was grainy. Pacific also makes a very grainy almond milk that i don't particularly care for, not when I could have smooth, creamy Almond Breeze. Anyway, from my previous experience with Dream* brand products, I suspected that their oat milk would not be grainy like the Pacific brand. And I was right. The texture was wonderfully smooth and creamy.
As for the taste, it was delicious. However, I did opt for the Maple Brown Sugar flavor instead of plain (or maybe vanilla was the other option, I cannot remember). The first time I tried this was on a lazy morning, poured over a bowl of cereal. As I was being lazy, I ate my cereal on the couch, and then sat my bowl down beside me. I kept thinking I smelled cookies baking, but then I would remember that there was some oat milk left in the bowl beside me. It smelled like burnt sugar (in the good way). The taste was sweet and kind of caramelly. Definitely a decadent addition to my boring bowl of high fiber cereal.
While this product certainly will not replace my normal cheap, unflavored, unsweetened soy milk, it will definitely go o my list of occasional treats. I recommend trying it, even just for fun. I also really appreciate the increasing number of alternatives to soy milk on the market.
*unfortunately, there is no information on their website about this product.
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
VeganMoFo: Soy and Seitan "Turkey" Roast
This roast was delicious. I mean, really good. I highly recommend trying this out some weekend while you are just putting around the house. I was very skeptical while I was making this. I was afraid it would end up too doughy, or that it wouldn't have enough flavor, but it was great. The recipe suggests letting them cool completely before serving, for a better texture. Take that suggestion! It was my intention all along to eat this roast the next day, but I did take a nibble as soon as I pulled them out of the oven. At that point, the taste was good, but the texture had me worried. But when I ate it again the next day, it was perfect. Bill enjoyed having thin slices on sandwiches for lunch. We ate one roast over the course of a week, and I froze the other one for later use. I am definitely going to take this dish to the Christmas gathering with my friends.
After making this, I don't feel the need to ever buy a Tofurkey roast again, except maybe if I needed the time convenience.
Friday, October 10, 2008
VeganMoFo: Where the magic happens
We are currently renting our place, and the kitchen is quite far from my dream kitchen. While small, it is bigger than most of the kitchen's I've had since moving away from my family.
This is what you see from the doorway from the dining room.This is what you see to the right. To the left is a door to the back "yard". It's boring, so no photo. This stove is pretty old, but it's gas, which is hard to come by in rentals around here.
Here's a peak inside the fridge. The fridge is smaller than average, so it's always jammed full. For perspective, I am 5'4" and it's about the same height as me.
Condiment city
Here's my bakers rack against the half wall. Spices and vinegars live here, as well as all of my cookbooks.
Here is a close-up of my faithful assistant, Beatrix.
This is the cupboard where the grains and tea live. I have a similar cupboard where the baking supplies live. I also took a photo of the cupboard where all the dishes live, but that photo mysteriously disappeared.
This isn't actually in the kitchen. We ran out of cupboard space in the kitchen, so we have an armoire in the dining room where I keep snacks, canned goods, miscellaneous food items, lesser used appliances, and the serving dishes.
Looking over these photos makes me feel so privileged. Thank God that I have never have to go hungry.
Sunday, October 5, 2008
VeganMoFo: A Survey!
1. Name a song that involves food in some way.
2. What criteria do you use when choosing a new cookbook to buy?
Usually amazon reviews, or interesting looking recipes. Pictures help, but are not a requirement.
3. What did you eat today?
Everything bread, leftover potato soup, grapes.
4. Name a vegan food that you know exists but you have never tried.
A palatable vegan cheese
5. The Food Network just called and needs you to start your new show tomorrow. What will the title of the show be?
Erica BAKES!
6. Favorite hot sauce or other spicy condiment?
Sriracha
7. How old were you when you became vegetarian/vegan?
vegetarian:21, vegan: not quite yet
8. Favorite vegan cheeze?
Follow your heart is ok, but i'd rather just skip it.
9. Cutest baby animal?pandas
10. Favorite type of jam/jelly/marmalade/preserves?
i don't like most, but apple butter is pretty good.
11. Do you take any vitamins/supplements?
nope. they make me nauseous
12. What food/dish most embodies the Fall season?
pumpkin in all forms.
13. What food would you have a hard time living without?
pasta
14. Coffee, tea, or hot chocolate?
herbal tea
15. It's 10PM and you're starving. What do you eat?
maybe a bowl of cereal, or whatever random snacks we have around
16. If you have an animal companion, what is his/her favorite food?
my babies go crazy over chickpeas. the just stand at the kitchen and cry anytime i open a can
17. Worst injury you've gotten in the kitchen?
one time i grated some skin off of my thumb. that was pretty nasty.
18. When you have a food-related question, who do you call?
the Internet
19. Summer is ending- What food will you miss most?
tomatoes
20. What snacks do you keep in your purse/backpack/desk at work?
i have a couple fruit leathers in my desk at work. sometimes i have tea bags in my purse.
21. Favorite soup to make on a rainy day?
lentil soup, or minestrone
22. What's your favorite combination of fresh vegetable and/or fruit juices?
orange and papaya
23. Favorite brand of root beer?
I like whole food's 365 brand, because its the cheapest nonHFCS brand. I'm not really a root beer connoisseur.
24. Make up your own question!
what's your favorite bean?
black beans!
VeganMoFo: Pumpkin Oatmeal
I cooked some oatmeal on the stove using oatmilk. When it was just about finished, I stirred in the pumpkin, some cinnamon, a dash of nutmeg and a drizzle of maple syrup. I thought it was almost perfect but needed a touch of something else, so I added a dash of allspice. That did the trick for me. It was warm and earthy and just slightly sweet. The embodiment of autumn. Unfortunately, from this breakfast I found out that Bill despises allspice. The poor man is quite particular about certain strong spices. While I loved my bowl, he was unable to tolerate it, so the dogs ate the rest of his. That's brown sugar sprinkled on top in the picture.
Lucky me, I have just enough pumpkin left for a single serving tomorrow morning.
Saturday, October 4, 2008
VeganMoFo: This week's meal plan
Today: Potato soup, salad, bread (not homemade as planned, because i bought 2 different bread product at the store)
Sunday: Moussaka from Vcon
Monday: Breakfast for dinner: Crepes!
Tuesday:Beanball subs with sweet potato fries and salad
Wednesday: Out to eat, location TBD
Thursday: Dinner with small group
Friday:Tomato soup with homemade croutons and salad
I also plan to make those Egg McVegans that were popular for a little while. Bill sometimes reminisces of his McDonald days, so I'm sure he'll love it. I will probably make a cheesecake this week too.
Friday, October 3, 2008
VeganMoFo: Soup's on!
This is a great week to begin VeganMoFo. Why, you ask? Well, because this week, fall officially hit Ohio. On Monday, the temperature was in the mid 70's, but now we are in the 50's and 60's, and it feels good!
There are many reasons that Fall is my favorite season, not least of which are all of the amazing foods that I associate with this time of years. All things apple and pumpkin. Warm beverages like tea, cocoa and cider. And of course, after a season long hiatus, I am ready again to start making soup.
I could sing the praises of soup all day long. It's warm, it's filling, it's a classic comfort food item, it's a great way to get a hearty dose of veggies, and it is easily made healthy. Not to mention that one pot meals are a snap to clean up! Most soups also freeze well. Frozen soup can be awfully handy to have around when you are sick and craving the comfort of soup, but unable to gather the energy to chop veggies and stir the pot.
Despite all the wondrous virtues of soup, my husband still gets a disappointed look on his face when I say we are having soup for dinner. I don't fully understand how he could be disappointed, but I will chalk it up to a lifetime of canned soups. I also know that the soups that he does like are the creamy ones. I prefer a broth based soup. In an effort to make a soup lover out of dear Bill, I am going to try veganizing a couple of his favorite kinds of soup over the next few weeks. It will be an interesting task, because I have always hated all things creamy (i attribute that of the few signature dishes my mother makes, most have a base of canned condensed cream of something soups). We will see if a little creative veganizing can bring Bill and I to a soup happy medium.
For now, I leave you with a photo of the delicious Chipotle, Corn and Black Bean Stew from Vegan With a Vengeance. This was delightful and spicy. It was my first time cooking with chipotle peppers. Chopping hot peppers always makes me a little nervous, but I'm beginning to get over that. The chipotles here lend a nice, subtle smoky flavor to the soup.
This weekend, I am going to try my hand at potato soup and homemade bread. Should be fun!
Thursday, October 2, 2008
VeganMoFo: already a day late!
For today's topic, I am going to recommend a book to you all. Do yourself a favor and purchase Eat, Drink and Be Vegan by Dreena Burton.
I'm writing this post coming off of a hummus high. This lovely book has an entire chapter dedicated to the stuff. Last night I made the Black Bean and Orange Hummus and the Peanut Sesame Hummus for my small group. Both were well received, but the Peanut Sesame was the real crowd winner.
I've tried a few other recipes in this book as well, and they have all been gems. The Chocolate Pumpkin Pie is the stuff of chocolate lover's dreams. Dreena writes recipes with her family's health in mind, so I always feel good about using her recipes. One caveat to this is that some of her recipes call for ingredients that must be purchased at the health food store. But that's only in some recipes. The rest are based on fresh veggies, whole grains and delicious legumes for yummy and cost effective meals.
See a sampling of recipes from Eat, Drink & Be Vegan here.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Jumble pasta, salad, yummy cookies
Jumble pasta:
I started out by caramelizing some onions in olive oil and a dribble of maple syrup. Then I added a couple cloves of garlic, and some leftover sundried tomatoes that needed to be used up. After all of that softened, I tossed in the remains of a bag of frozen broccoli and some frozen navy beans. I poured in some white wine, sprinkled some italian seasoning, salt and pepper and cooked until everything was hot. Then I tossed in some sprouted wheat noodles fro Trader Joes and let it cook a few minutes longer. Topped with fresh grated parmesan and red pepper flakes. Very yummy use of leftover ingredients.
Served with a salad of spinach, onion, parmesan, capers and garden tomatoes.
For dessert, Homestyle Chocolate Chip Cookies from Vive Le Vegan by Dreena Burton.
This recipe is perfect. Supper quick to whip together and only made 9 cookies, perfect for Bill and I to share for a couple of days.
Two Week Meal Plan
Tonight!: caramelized onions, broccoli and white beans sauteed with pasta, topped with fresh Parmesan, salad of spinach and (God willing) garden tomatoes.
Wednesday: going out to eat. Opps! this will go outside of the frugal plan, but we already made plans to go out with friends. We probably will not spend very much money though.
Thursday: on Thursdays, the lovely woman who hosts our small group cooks a big (vegetarian!) dinner for the entire group. It has been a huge blessing to be served a home cooked, vegetarian meal once a week.
Friday: soft tacos with refried pinto beans, soy chorizo, and vegan cheezy sauce, green salad
Saturday: one of Bryanna Clark Grogan' turkey roasts, brown gravy, sauteed green beans, and corn
Sunday: Leftover roast on homemade bread, green salad
Monday: 3 bean chili, homemade bread, green salad
Tuesday: chickpeas romesco, garlic bread, green salad
Wednesday: either ginger tofu soup, or potato soup
Thursday: small group dinner again!
Friday: veggie stir fry with frozen chicken style pieces, over brown rice
Saturday: spaghetti and bean balls, green salad
Sunday: cajun style red beans and rice
Of course, this is all subject to change. I just wanted to reassure myself that I could make it 2 more weeks without a big grocery shopping trip, using up what we already have on hand. I'll probably throw some desserts in there and some fancy weekend breakfasts. I'll also try to post pics, as well as recipes or recipe sources.
Also view your reading pleasure, here is my list of cheap pantry staples that I always have on hand, helping me to make cheap, mostly balanced vegetarian (usually vegan) meals:
-bulk grains (rice, quinoa, and pasta are standbys, with other less common grains making the occasional appearance).
-herbs and spices
-beans, dried and canned. dried beans can be made in large quantities in the crockpot with minimal effort, and frozen for later use
-canned tomatoes, in many varieties. Can be used in soup, chilli, pasta sauces, etc.
-bulk grains
-frozen veggies, which are often cheaper than fresh, but still retain most of the nutrients. this is especially helpful to me in cutting down waste. with only 2 of us, sometimes frsh veggies go bad before we get a chance to use them all up (we do still, however incorporate fresh veggies often).
-bulk olive oil. its much cheaper to buy quality oil in large quantities, and i go through it enough for that to make sense.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
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Sunday, July 27, 2008
Weekend Eats
Chickpea cutlets (made with navy beans instead, adapted from Veganomicon) and sauteed cabbage with onions.
Soft pretzels (from Joy of Vegan Baking) with mustard and Warm and Cheezy White Bean Dip (from Eat, Drink, and Be Vegan).
Blueberry pancakes
Oatmeal Cookies (from Joy of Vegan Baking).
Nachos. Healthier than they look.
Veggie Stir Fry over soba noodles
Monday, July 21, 2008
Summer
This past several days have been extremely hot around here. The weekend was just unbearable! Our house, charming as it is, is not equipped with cental air. We have window air conditioners in the bedroom and in the dogs' room, but the rest of the house is without. I have no desire to turn on the even, or even heat anything on the stove top. I swear my crockpot even made it get hot in the kitchen! It seems to be cooler today, which is nice. Yesterday I think I broke a sweat just turning the pages in my book!
A few months ago, Bill and I decided to try our hands at gardening. We went to Lowe'snd purchased a few seed packets and a couple of cheap pots. We weren't sure if anything would happen, but sure enough green stuff started to sprout. Bill has really taken to gardening. He does pretty much all of the maintaining. We dont have much of a yard, so we just have some sunflowers and tomatoes planted in front of the porch, and several potted plants (most given to us by Bill's grandpa) lining the porch. The greenery is a little overwhelming.
The sunflowers have grown pretty tall, although not all of the flowers have blumed yet. One of them is taller than me, which I think is pretty cool. We planted 4 different varieties, but it seems only 2 have bloomed.
We don't really know anything about gardening, and we don't really have a ton of free time. I think our garden suffers a bit, but it's just neat to see that we were successful in having anything sprout at all. It wasnt too long ago that in place of the sunflowers there was just a bare patch of dirt where Bill has dug up all the grass.
We have a couple other flowers (none bloomed), as wells as some tomatoes and several thriving kinds of herbs. We did lose our cilantro though. I guess it was too delicate for our newly greened thumbs.
The tomatoes seem to be growing very slowly and a little behind schedule. I hope that they survive. I really cant wait to bite into the first one! It would be great some day to have a big yard and grow a lot of our own food. If we ever have the space, I would love to plant a ton of strawberries.
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Life, it just keeps happening
Friday, April 11, 2008
What’s in a name?
First of all, a gripe. I am not yet officially Mrs. Newlastname. I am legally still Mrs. Oldlastname. The legal process of changing your last name is not quick, nor easy. I have begun the process (delayed slightly due to the fact that government offices are only open during the hours that I have to be at work), but its not official yet.
Lagality aside, I have taken to calling myself Mrs. Newlastname. It is fun to hear friends refer to me as this new name. It is also fun to be referred to as Bill’s wife and ot refer to him in conversation as my husband. But I am still getting used to it.
Being called by a new name is so strange. The first obvious reason is that I have been Erica Oldlastname for 24 years. Another reason that is strange is that even though I am referring to myself with my new last name, I am still signing my old one on any official documents or anytime I am shopping and need to sign my receipts.
The other challenge is that my husbands last name is quite unique. My old last name is very common. While using my new last name, I am learning that I now have to spell it out every time I say it, and that people mispronounce it constantly. That is just completely different form my past experience.
So why go through all the trouble? Why even bother changing my name? I didn’t have to. And things would certainly be easier if I didn’t (I have a very long list of notifications I need to make once its official).
I chose to take my husbands last name because I feel that it unifies us. Logically, I know that we are husband and wife no matter what we are called. And I know that we are unified by more that words or names. But sharing the same names is very symbolic to sharing our lives. It symbolizes that we are a family now, and our family is called by one name. It also signifies that I have changed my life. I like the statement that it makes.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
How to have a nice wedding for under $6000
I read on some wedding website that the average wedding in the United States costs about $24,000. That is approximately how much money I make at my job in a year (talk about perspective! No way am I going to spend a year’s salary on one day!). In the very beginning stages of our engagement, my fiancé and I decided we would set a budget for our wedding of $6000. I wasn’t even sure how we would come up with that much. But the first thing that had to happen is we had to get realistic with our expectations. I have been to a couple of very extravagant weddings. We had to know that that was not what we were going to have. I have also been to a few wedding that were done very inexpensively. These weddings were still beautiful, they were still fun, and at the end of the day, the couple was still married. If you want to do an inexpensive wedding, you have to adjust your expectations, and also realize that though your Wedding day will be a marvelous day, it will still only be one day, and you don’t want to spend the next couple of years (or a year’s salary) paying for one day.
Before I go into details, I want to preface this by saying that it is by the grace of God that we will have this wedding with pretty much no debt. One reason, which won’t work for every couple, is that my fiancé has been doing a lot of freelance work in addition to working his regular hours. The Lord really opened up a lot of doors for him to take on several projects over the past few months. Almost all of the wedding/honeymoon is getting paid for from his freelance jobs.
The company that my fiancé works for designed our wedding invitations and all other paper collateral. We only had to pay for the printing. This saved us so much money! We paid less than half of what couples normally pay for these things, and the invitations, etc were extremely unique and of high quality. They were fun and colorful and non-traditional, which fits our personalities pretty well.
We have also been blessed by a lot of talented friends. One friend is going to do our photos for free. He does photography as a hobby, not professionally, so we do not have to jump through all of the business hoops. He takes nice photos, and has experience doing weddings. Photography is often the largest cost of weddings, and we are having ours done (including the photo files) for free! We will have to have them printed though, but that is a much smaller cost. A different friend is going to shoot video for the wedding, which he is doing in exchange for my fiancé shooting video at a different occasion. With the help of my laptop, a friend is going to DJ the reception for us, with a PA system borrowed from a different friend. And as part of the ceremony, 2 other friends are going to sing and play guitar for us. We have a group of friends who will decorate the reception site and make sure things are running smoothly during the reception as well. All of our friends are doing these things as favors to us! When you are a planning a wedding, scout out the talent of your friends! By calling in favors from friends, we have been able to spend more money elsewhere.
We are having our wedding ceremony in the chapel at our church. We are paying a very small fee for this. If you are a member of a church, you can usually have your wedding there for free or for very cheap. Our church also has a lot of decorative items that they are letting us borrow. Perhaps your church does too. To save money, we decided to forgo costly flowers. The only flowers involved will be my bouquet, my bridesmaid’s bouquets, and boutonnières/ corsages for the groom, groomsman, parents and grandparents. All of the flowers will be fakes, which are cheaper than real, and means that I can keep my bouquet forever if I want to. We are going to use a lot of candles and ribbons to decorate the ceremony site instead, and it will all be very simple. Here is another great tip: see if any recently married friends have decorations just taking up space in their closets and basements that you can borrow. A good friend of mine is letting us use tons of candles, some ribbons, and an aisle runner. She also gave us all of her leftover bubbles for blowing after the ceremony. Think about it, after your wedding, what else are you going to do with all of those decorations?!
We are going to have our reception at a local community center. The one near our church actually has a lovely banquet room, just as nice as any fancy banquet hall. Definitely consider community centers when looking for an inexpensive reception site. Another option is to have the reception at your church if they allow that. Our church does, but because we are getting married the week before Easter, there are too many events going on at our church, so we are only able to use the chapel. To save money on cakes and decorations, we decided to order individual 8” round cakes for each table to serve as centerpieces. We are getting the cakes at Wal-Mart, and it works out to cost around $2/person for cakes. When I (briefly) shopped wedding cakes, the lowest cost I found was $4/ person. Our cake centerpieces are cheaper, doing double duty as dessert, and will be a nice unique touch that I think the guests will enjoy. We will also use confetti and candles to decorate the tables. We aren’t doing much else to decorate for the reception, because I don’t think it’s really very necessary, and I couldn’t come up with any other ideas that I liked.
The bulk of the money we are spending is on food. I read many books and websites about how to save money on food, and a couple great ideas are to have just a cake or punch reception, or to just serve light hor’ dourves. However, almost all of our guests will be driving from 2-3 hours away, and so we thought it only right to serve them a full meal. We are vegetarians, and are not going to be serving meat at our reception. This is a really good option to save money. I could not imagine how much it would cost to serve chicken to 180 people! Now I know many people turn their nose up to the idea of a vegetarian reception, but we are serving several styles of pasta, that are typically meatless anyway! People will not even miss the meat when they are eating fresh pesto pasta or spaghetti. This is an idea to consider if you are trying to save money. We also decided to serve the meal buffet style, so that we do not have to pay a wait staff. The pasta we are serving is quite delicious and I think that everyone will be very satisfied. The place that we are having our reception does not allow alcohol to be served. Our parents were very upset that we weren’t going to be able to serve alcohol, but it is actually a huge blessing that it is not allowed. For one, alcohol is very expensive! It definitely didn’t fit into our budget. Nor did hiring a bartender. And we also won’t have to worry about people drinking too much and trying to drive home.
One area that I saved a ton of money was on my dress. My dress was about $160. I did not buy a bridal gown, I instead bought a very lovely ivory evening gown that looks really beautiful on me. Some women may want to splurge a little more in this area. I preferred to splurge on the food instead, because the dress didn’t mean as much too me. I encourage bride to think outside of the box on this one. For one, a dress doesn’t have to be white. I honestly never wanted to wear a large white dress. I tried several dresses on at David bridal, and as I suspected, my short, high waisted, wide hipped, stature was significantly overwhelmed by the large, poufy white dresses. In my past dreamings of my wedding, I always dreamed of a small, more casual, less traditional wedding, in which I wore a pale pink gown. This dream didn’t match up with my fiancés dream however and we had to compromise a little bit in some areas. One was that he really wanted me to wear a white or ivory gown, and so I chose an ivory dress. I realize however that for many brides, the white dress is very important. Some good alternatives are to wear a white bridesmaid dress, a white prom dress, or a white or ivory evening gown instead. Hundreds of dollars can be saved in this way. Perhaps you could even borrow a dress. Maybe you could wear your mother or your sister’s dress. Some of the nicer secondhand shops in your town might also have bridal gowns in very good condition. Saving money is about being creative.
We also really lucked out on our honeymoon, although it is still going to be a little pricey. At some point I got my hands on a catalog for the Sandals resorts. These resorts are very expensive, and I didn’t think for even a second that we could afford it. But the idea of an all inclusive resort was really appealing to us. We searched around and couldn’t find anything we really liked. Then one day we went to the Sandals website and saw that they were having a 50% off sale! We couldn’t pass it up! It was only slightly more than we wanted to spend, but we think it would be well worth the little splurge.
My last tip is to beware of anything the with word “wedding” in the title. It means there has been an automatic mark-up in the price. One example is with our cakes. “Wedding” cakes are expensive, but the same amount of cake and frosting in any other form will cost significantly less. Here is one that really got me. I saw unity candle sets selling for around $30. These did not include candle stands/holder, just the 3 candles. That’s 2 tapers and 1 pillar candle. I will be getting my 2 tapers and 1 pillar candle at the dollar store for less than $5, thank you very much! Shop around, think outside of the box, do your research! You can also get a lot of wedding books and magazines at the library instead of buying them, and the internet has been an invaluable resource.
That about wraps it up for us. One thing that I want to note is that the $6000 we are spending on the wedding/reception/honeymoon does not include our rings. Those would add a good bit more to the total we have spent, but we have already paid for those in full as well. Rings do not have to be expensive though. It’s a good idea to shop around a lot.
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
On Cooking
I did not always like to cook. Growing up, I never learned to cook, and also never learned appreciation for a home cooked meal. As a child and a teenager, I would much rather get fast food or frozen snacks. I started learning to cook when I was 19, but my eyes were really opened up to the world of food when I went vegetarian at age 21. I started reading websites and books about vegetarianism, and started leaning about vegetables I never knew existed. My family doesn’t eat many veggies, so I didn’t know much about them. Growing up, my grandma was out primary cook, and she does not like to season her food very much at all. She also hates garlic (tragedy!). I had no context for the vast array of flavors and spices out there! As I began experimenting with spices and vegetables and cooking techniques, my taste preferences changed dramatically. I always hated onions as a kid, but now I use them in everything! I now love veggies, and I also love ethnic dishes. I also learned how to bake from scratch instead of from a box, and there really is no other way! Muffins from scratch only take a couple minutes longer to whip up than muffins from a box, and use fresher and healthier ingredients than boxed mixes.
I am blessed to be marrying a man who has adventurous tastes! When we met he was not a vegetarian, but he had no reservations about trying tofu or bean burgers or anything else. He loves my cooking so much that he now eats almost exclusively vegetarian too. The only challenge is scaling meals down to fit just the 2 of us. I really do find it easier to cook for a crowd. This is part of the reason that I love having dinner guests and throwing parties.
I will probably talk about food a lot on this blog. I will probably include pictures from time to time. Right now I have a crappy camera, but hopefully we will be getting a new one soon. I also intend to do some product reviews and kitchen tips.
Monday, February 11, 2008
crazy times
There are still so many small details to be worked out for our wedding day, it makes my brain spin. I wish I had more vacation days at work, but I am using them all for the honeymoon! Otherwise, it would be great to take a day or two off to really work the details out. Or just to catch my breath! It's clear to me that the honeymoon became a tradition because after all of that planning, the couple needs a vacation!
Anyway, I have a few good ideas that I plan to write about here in the future, but I just have not had time to wrap my head around them and get anything written that makes sense. Soon enough, life will settle down, and I can get into a better writting routine!
Thursday, January 3, 2008
So this is the new year
For me, there has never been anything very magical about the day we mark as the beginning of a new year. I don’t really remember ever making any resolutions, having always heard the jokes about how people cannot keep them. But 2007 ended up being a very chaotic year for me, and would like to take this time to symbolize a new beginning. So I’ve come up with some goals that I want to keep in my mind as I am living my life. I don’t want this to be a list of to-dos that looms over me, making me feel weighed down. Instead, I want it to be a list of ideas that may improve my daily life. So, here goes:
- I want to be more consistent with my devotional times. Somehow several months ago, I got really off track and off schedule, and have since had irregular devotional times and not really had a focus in how I am studying the bible. I want to get back into the habit of making devotional time a high priority daily, and currently I am going to bring my focus back into doing Beth Moore’s bible study The Patriarchs.
- I want to do a much better job at using time efficiently. A major part of this will be waking up at the same time every morning and having a morning routine. I have much more energy for things like cleaning the house and reading the bible in the morning, before the work day has drained me. So it would be wise for me to do these things in the morning. This also means going to bed at a decent time, so that I can be well-rested.
- I want to read more books. I love reading, but do not do it often enough. After the chaos of the wedding and adjusting to married life, I am going to start my book club up again. I will also try to read more I my own. I feel like reading is a good way to keep your mind sharp
- I want to pray more for my job. My job can be emotionally draining, and I am often frustrated by it or just worn down. I want to lift my work up to God daily, so that he might be glorified by how I spend my day.
- I want to take the dogs for more walks. We are moving to a safer neighborhood than the one I live in now, so I will feel more comfortable taking the dogs for their walks in the early morning and at dusk.
- I want to become an expert at spending less money. I want to be a better bargain shopper, and I want to put more consideration into the purchase I make.
- I want to become a great wife.
So those are my goals. They are very attainable. I am interested in other people's goals as well.